There are some people in our lives who we don't want to disappoint, who we want to continue to see us in the light that they do now.

These people, without any effort, have a huge influence in shaping our behaviours.

We should cherish the positive influence these people have on us.

At the same time, there are people who constantly make the effort to show us we aren't good enough. 

If we try not to disappoint these people, we'll never succeed. Instead, it'll be the ruin of us. 

We should learn to distance ourselves from such influence.